Quotes of Love

To truly love something, you must first give it a chance to fail. If it survives, it is going to be stronger than ever. Distance is pure proof of this, and forever we will love if we survive.
----by Matthew----

There is no long distance about love, it always finds a way to bring hearts together no matter how many miles there are between them.
----by Meredith----

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How to live with your love happily ever after

When we fall in love, we usually think that's all we'll need to be happy. However, when reality sets in and we have our first real argument, we get hit with the realization that our partner isn't perfect.

In the beginning of a relationship we do our best to give our partner the benefit of the doubt, expressing our love and goodwill, even when we're upset. However, as time goes on, it can get harder to resolve arguments and, therefore, harder to feel loving and forgiving towards our partner.

It's at these times that we start to ask ourselves, is there a secret to making a relationship last? Is it really possible to live happily ever after?
The answer to these questions is, "Yes!" However, the hardest question to answer is: How do we do it? How do I have a lasting, happy relationship that doesn't end in a painful breakup?

The first thing to remember is that keeping a partnership healthy and happy requires work and that it will not happen on its own -- just like a flower won't grow if it isn't watered and fed. Relationships need nurturing, tending to, time, and energy! We often forget that a couple contains two human beings who both need to be appreciated, heard, valued, and respected.

With this in mind, here are seven ways to make your relationship last:

1. Keep the lines of communication open. If you don't know how to express your feelings and/or have poor listening skills, learn to get better at both. You can read a book, take a class, or get into counseling. Good communication requires both the ability to express and listen.

2. Don't sweep your fights under the rug and think they'll magically resolve themselves. Do your best to resolve your first argument as soon as it arises so you won't have the same argument for the next 50 years, in different forms.

3. Remember that you love your partner; therefore, you want the best for her/him. Give her/him the benefit of the doubt when you feel angry, hurt, or disappointed. Talk to your partner; don't make assumptions.

4. Don't take your partner for granted. Tell your partner every day something you appreciate about her/him and how grateful you are to have them in your life.

5. Your partner should never feel like your enemy. If they do, something is wrong; remember that you fell in love with this person. If there's so much anger that you feel like you are enemies, get help somewhere as quickly as possible.

6. Gauge your relationship. Notice and don't ignore the warning signs if you're not talking, you're less affectionate, you're fighting all the time, and you're not happy. The sooner you acknowledge you're having problems, the sooner you can begin to solve them.

7. Always remember that you have the power to change behaviors in your relationship through different tools of self-discovery. You don't have to stay stuck in unhealthy ruts.

Good, lasting relationships are made up of two conscious individuals who have the desire to work on themselves with the determination to stay focused on the importance of their relationship. They do not take their partner for granted. They have their partner's best interest at heart and, therefore, build trust with their partner.

When arguments come up, they don't ignore them. They address the issues and try to resolve them. When they see warning signs that their relationship could be in trouble, they act immediately and look for new ways to relate to each other.This can be accomplished by anyone who is willing to take the time and energy to make their relationship a priority in their life. Nurture your partnership as it so richly deserves! You can live happily ever after, not with magic, but with work, awareness, and knowledge of yourself and your partner.


source: Yahoo


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Lesson to be learned

20 Things you should learned.....

-I'm posting this to share the lesson that I've learned this past few days....enjoy reading everyone!

1. A man won't let go if he really loves you. Do not hold on to someone who has let go of you. He does not love you and does not value having you. Believe me, he will not let go if he really loves you. There is another reason he is not willing to tell.

2. Do not look for reasons why he ended the relationship. There is only one reason why he ended your relationship.He just does not love you. Do not waste your time thinking of reasons or what you should have done. Move on and be open to a man who will truly love you.

3. Do not get hung up on your past. Do not nag or distrust your current boyfriend just because your ex hurt you. Do not treat him or the relationship the same way. Do not compare. He will not react the same way as your ex. Do not be worried that your simple mistakes will cause him to look for another girl. What happened with your ex was not your fault. It was not because you didn't guard him enough or you didn't make him happy enough.

4. Do not look into images. How many times have you met a girl who didn't have the best image in school or at the office, but you get to know the girl and found out she was actually extremely nice? Do not rely on images. Oftentimes, it is far from reality. Do not fear men just because your "supposedly" perfect ex-boyfriend mistreated you.

5. Always have your own set of rules. Set your limits on how far you'd go for a guy. It's perfectly ok to give and do everything as long as it's worth it.. And it's worth it if the guy is treating you right.

6. Do not be scared to lose him. Don't be scared that he'll break up with you. Once you are afraid of losing him, you easily can be taken advantage. Be strong and if something is unacceptable, do not accept it and speak up.

7. Avoid calling your guy. It's a guy thing. The relationship will definitely be better if it's the guy who's calling, not the girl. He will get tired of you if you keep on calling. He will lose interest and challenge. More so, he will get annoyed. But it's a girl thing also that your fingers get too itchy until you dial his number. But avoid as much as possible. Call only if really needed (like checking if your suspicions are reasonable).

8. There is a guy who will value you. There is a guy out there who can make you feel valued, appreciated, and loved. And I mean, not just during your first few weeks together. So don't lose hope. Don't settle for a lesbian if you are not attracted to women. There is a man out there who can love you like a girl can. Also, do not believe him when he says it's just the way he really is. He's not the sweet or expressive-type. Remember during your first few weeks together? Where has that sweet guy gone? He simply is not that into you anymore.

9. Always be the only one, no matter what. Do not ever fall for a guy who has another girl, be it his wife, girlfriend, or any girl that he says he just can't get rid of for whatever reason. If you truly believe that he loves you and for some reason, he can't leave or let go of another girl, then you are no different from any ordinary mistress.

10. He must respect you. No matter how long the relationship has been, he should always show respect towards you.

11. If he fooled you, end it. Philandering once is enough. You can never trust nor respect the person again.

12. Never start a relationship the wrong way. Do not steal another girl's man, for whatever reason. Nor should you enter a relationship for the wrong reasons (loneliness, on the rebound, getting back at your ex, man-dependency, etc.) it is bound not to last. You will only end up wasting more years of your life.

13. Do not force yourself into a relationship. Do not get into a relationship just because your friends are getting impatient with your dating escapades and the one hasn't come yet.. Do not choose whom to say yes to based on superficial things like money, looks, cars, etc.. If you are even thinking of these things, you have not fallen in love yet.

14. Do not settle. If you are not happy anymore with your relationship, break up instantly. He will not stay with you forever no matter how upright he might seem to be. Eventually, he will also want love and happiness in his life.

15. A relationship has to have love. Love is the only thing that will push you to give your efforts into making the relationship work. And believe me, keeping a relationship requires genuine efforts of both parties.

16. Don't be afraid to be single. It's fun to be single, try it. You can go out whenever and wherever you want. You are free. You can date whomever you
want and you get to go out for free! Do not get a boyfriend just for the sake of having one. Do not settle.

17. Be a good girl. Be a good girl to attract a good guy. Enter the relationship with sincere intentions. Take the guy and the relationship seriously with the plan of spending the rest of your life with that person (of course, this is after you had your bit of fun in your younger years) . If you compare your flings from your real relationships, you will know that the latter makes you happier and more fulfilled.

18. Love without limits. Whether you loved and gave everything or loved but held out for some things, if the relationship ends, you still get hurt. But
if you gave your everything, you were happy and you could say that it was worth it. If you didn't give your all, you get hurt for nothing.

19. You will get over him. Love is over-stated. Love eventually ends and you are free to love another.

20. Be the one. Act like you are the one. Don't be a nagger. Don't hinder his gimmicks. Don't give in to him too easily. Make him treat you as important. Don't be easy. Don't be like every other girl he had in his life.




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A right quotes for me?

Don't find love, let love find you. That's why it's called falling in love,
because you don't force yourself to fall, you just fall. ~
Unknown ~

Now tell me does it make sense?

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Why do we fall in love?

Why do we fall in love?This kind of enigma doesn't have an answer, even the brainiac can't find the solution about this mystery.Indeed love is full of mystery, it's a mystery why we fall in love,how it happens and when it comes. It's even a mystery why some love grows and why some love fails.

You can analyze this mystery and look for reasons and causes, but you will never do anymore that take the life out of the experience. Just as life itself is more than the sum of the bones and muscles and electrical impulses in the body. Love is more than the sum of the interests and attractions and commonalities that two people shared. And just as life itself is a gift that comes and goes in its own time, so the coming of love must be taken as an unfathomable gift that cannot be questioned in its ways.

Sometimes....hopefully at least once in your life - the gift of love will come to you in full flower. Take hold of it and celebrate it in all inexpressible beauty,this is the dream we all share. More often it will come and take hold of you, celebrate you for a brief moment, then move on. You need to know this about love and accept it. You need to treat what it brings you with kindness.

If you find yourself in love with someone who does not love you be gentle with yourself. There is nothing wrong with you, love just didn't choose to rest in the other person's heart.If you find yourself someone in love with you but you don't love him back, feel honored that love came and called at your door. But gently refuse the gift you cannot return, do not take advantage and do not cause pain. How you deal with love is how you deal with yourself. All our heart feel the same pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.If you fall in love with another and he falls in love with you, then love chooses to leave. Do not try to reclaim it nor to assess blame.."Let it go". There is a reason and there is a meaning,you will know in time.

Remember that you don't choose love. ..."Love chooses you". All you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing, then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person who brought it alive in you,give it to others who deem it poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in any way you can.Many lovers go wrong, having been so long without love.They understand love only as a need. They see their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and they begin to look at love as something that flows to them rather than from them.The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as their love cools they revert to seeing their love as a need.They cease to be someone who generates love and instead become someone who seeks love. They forget that the secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to grow only by giving it away.

Remember this and keep it to your heart. Love has its time, its own season, its own reason for coming and going. You cannot bribe it or coerce it or reason it into staying. You can only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and there is nothing you should do. Love always has been and always will be a mystery. "BE GLAD THAT IT CAME TO LIVE FOR A MOMENT IN YOUR LIFE".

"Have a blessed weekend everyone!"..muah

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A Letter from Cupid....

To boys from cupid: Never leave the girl that destiny picked for you. Truly, distance makes the heart grow fonder but too much will instead make you wander. Always make your presence felt for all she needs is emotional assurance. There is one girl who is meant to catch my arrow for you and nothing can change that, not time nor circumstance.

To girls from cupid: A man's heart is as fragile as a butterfly's wing. Never hold it too tightly for in time, he will rest right on the palm of your hands.

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Complicated Love....

Why is it that loving someone is a very complicated thing. And why it's hurt when our relationship with a certain person goes thwarted?

The hint:

-It's when you don't know where you stand
in a persons life...

-It's when you're hanging in dead air
and knowing you can be thrown off anytime...

-It's when you're like more than friends
and it's not really...
and when it's like you're lovers when
it's really otherwise...

Sometimes you would want to wish that you have never meet that person at all, but at the back of your mind you're thankful you had that person.That's love a very complicated thing as a song goes "I think God can explain".

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I'm crying over spilled milk!

Changes is one of the constant things that I really hated in this life. I know it really sounds absurd, but I really damn hate it. I know changes is the key to become a better person, a mature one!One thing that I really hate is the fact that when you established your bond toward something or someone, you will wake up one day and you'll be surprise of the certain changes...puff! It's like a slipped of a thunder and then it will suddenly gasp your entire world. This particular scenario makes me cry over spilled milk again, I really hated myself being in this kind of situation. For more than a month and until this day I found my self alone and crying in my room like a kid crying over her ruin toy. I'm not a kid anymore and I know that this pain I've felt inside, can't just be healed by some candies or chocolates. To make it straight it's all about my relationship with this particular person, I don't know if you can called it a relationship or not. All I know is that I love him and for some reason I know that he loves me too. Some people doesn't understand the love that I felt for him, and even my own self can't explain it why or how I felt this way. My status now is in between being a single and being committed, in other word it's complicated. Like what I've post here before I was officially involved in the “long distance relationship”, this was my first relationship ever. Ive never experience having a boyfriend not until now. Before I never felt the distance between us, although physically we don't feel each other but the thought of always talking on-line makes he's presence felt. Then due to the twist of fate, the word “change” knock in our door. We didn't talk that much like what we used to before, the communication crush. These thing torn me into pieces...I really miss him, I miss our long talk, I miss him the way he smile at me, I miss him when he sings at me and I miss him more than the world knows. I know he's quit busy now with he's study, and I understand that, even thought its really hard for me. I hope he knows that I can't stop thinking about him from the moment I go to the bed until I woke up. Some of my friends think that I am stupid, they even laugh at me (sorry friends, but I don't care!). It's like that I'm driving a car and I don't know where it leads to or what path to go through, But I keep my fingers cross and ask God to guide me in this relationship all the way. Honestly I really don't want that this relationship to end and for this I'm still holding on. I still give my best shot knowing I'm slowly dying in pain, if ever this relationship will not going to work-out (I'm knocking on the wood now...lol), at least he experienced how to be loved by a "True Lover".

***To tell you frankly I really don't want to post this, aside from way to personal I'm also afraid to be laugh at and I don't want all of you to think that I'm making my self look pity, but this blog is my on-line diary, my sanctuary whenever I felt I don't belong in the real world.***

P.S. For you:I love you and I hope the little love you've once felt for me before, was still there. I miss you.

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Jealousy

Many lovers end up fighting because of this word "jealousy", some even leads to drastic scenario (e.g murder)I remember one of the flash report in the other night husband killed he's wife because of wrong accusation, see being in the state of jealousy can ruin your life. So what is jealousy is all about?How can we prevent it from acting strange?

Some authorities say jealousy is a sign that we are insecure and unsure of ourselves, we have a "low self image". Others believe the roots of jealousy go back to childhood dependency when we tried to lay exclusive claim to our mother's love and care. Some people think jealousy is a true measure of love, they assume that the more jealous you are , the more you love your girlfriend or boyfriend.

When you're jealous you want to fence in the other person, to keep him or her wholly to yourself. You are, in short being selfish and possessive. Your concern is with what you want, not with the other person wants. You're afraid that he or she might enjoy or give some attention to someone other that yourself.

Such a response is selfish , this kind of attitude is the one taking you of from your relationship . You are not willing to release the other person to do freely what he or she finds enjoyable. In effect it's like you are saying "I want you to be happy, but only if you do what makes me happy. My happiness comes first, not yours". This is a sign of infatuation not love. I'm not saying that you will never feel jealous, none of us ever gets to be 100% selfless duh!I even considered my self as a jealous person,but in some cases I tried to be calm and study the things before I brag about it. But if you love the person the more you are able to release her or him, "Release is an expression of trust, respect and acceptance".To the extend love is not selfish, you can free of jealousy.

That's why it's so important that love be mutual. If you love you trust, that means you need someone worthy of that trust. In that way you can free each other to your true selves, in full confidence that your trust will not be betrayed.

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The Husband Store!

Some women are too picky in terms of choosing a husband or someone to be with for the rest of there lives..hahaha. Well that is not wrong right girls? cause marriage is a lifetime commitment, you should think all the possibilities like ,if this man is a good provider for your future family, if this man will stay for you for the rest of your lives , a god fearing person and etcetera. It's not all about feelings, it's about everything.But admit it sometimes being so choosy can lead to disaster, you try to find the man that can fit to your standard not knowing you already blow the change of finding the right man for you.Read this story, so that you will know what I mean. I got it from one of the web site.

***A store that sells new husbands has just opened in New York City, where a woman may go to choose a husband.
Among the instructions at the entrance is a description of how the store operates:
You may visit this store ONLY ONCE! There are six floors and the value of the products increase as the shopper ascends the flights. The shopper may choose any item from a particular floor, or may choose to go up to the next floor, but you cannot go back down except to exit the building!

So, a woman goes to the Husband Store to find a husband. On the first floor the sign on the door reads:

Floor 1 - These men Have Jobs. She is intrigued, but continues to the second floor, where the sign reads:

Floor 2 - These men Have Jobs and Love Kids. 'That's nice', she thinks, 'but I want more.' so she continues upward. The third floor sign reads:

Floor 3 - These men have Jobs, Love Kids, and are Extremely Good Looking. 'Wow,' she thinks, but feels compelled to keep going. She goes to the fourth floor and the sign reads:

Floor 4 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Good Looking and Help with Housework. 'Oh, mercy me!' she exclaims, 'I can hardly stand it!' Still, she goes to the fifth floor and the sign reads:

Floor 5 - These men Have Jobs, Love Kids, are Drop-dead Gorgeous, Help with Housework, and Have a Strong Romantic Streak. She is so tempted to stay, but she goes to the sixth floor, where the sign reads:

Floor 6 - You are visitor 31,456,012 to this floor. There are no men on this floor. This floor exists solely as proof that women are impossible to please. Thank you for shopping at the Husband Store.

***I wish I can find a store like that, were you can buy your future husband.Definitely I stop at floor 4 or 5 I guess...hahaha..See what I mean?There's no wrong in choosing a mate, you can search as along as you want to, but be sure you know when to stop.

Source: Heart n Soul
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Confession of a desperate girl

I wish I have this:

Someone who calls me almost every minute, just to say I love you.
Someone who desperately hugs me, every time I fight.
Someone who hold my hand and grasp it tightly but gently.
Stares at me as if I'm the only one around.
Sings me a song even if he doesn't have a good voice.
Pulls me in the rain and dance with me.
And lastly.....
Someone who pulls me back in he's arms when I'm hurt.

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I Corinthians, chapter 13

And now I will show you the most excellent way:

If I speak in tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give up all I possess and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.
Love is patient; love is kind; it does not envy; it does not boast; it is not proud. It is not rude; it is not self-seeking; it is not easily angered; it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will pass away; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears.
When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection, then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love, but the greatest of these is love.

****Source:Hearts and Mind****

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Time Never Goes Back!

I got this story which I think its pretty interesting... After reading, I could relate my life with the story... Then, do self reflection after having completed reading this article!

Once upon a time, there was a teacher and his student lying down under a big tree near a big grass area. Then, suddenly, the student asked the teacher.

Student : Teacher, I'm confused, how can we find our soul-mate? Can you please help me?

Teacher : (Silent for few second, than he answer) Well, it's a pretty hard and easy question.

Student : (Thinking hard) Huh???

Teacher : Look on that way, there are a lot of grass there, why don't you walk there but please never walk backward, just walk straight ahead. On your way, try to find a beautiful grass and pick it up then give it to me. But just one.

Student : Well, ok then... wait for me... (walked straight ahead to the grass field).

A few minutes later...

Student : I'm back.

Teacher : well I don't see any beautiful grass on your hand.

Student : On my journey, I found few beautiful grass, but I thought that I would find a better one, so I didn't pick it up. But I didn't realize that I'm at the end of the field, and I hadn't picked up any. Cause you told me not to go back, so I didn't go back.

Teacher : That's what happened in real life.

MORAL OF THE STORY:

* Grass - is people around you

* Beautiful Grass - is people that attract you

* Grass Field - is time

* In looking for your soulmate, please don't always compare and hope that there will be a better one. By doing that, you'll waste your life and time, cause remember "Time Never Goes Back".It applies the same in finding your ideal life partner, your suitable career or business. Therefore the morale is LOVE & Grab hold of the opportunity that you have now, don't waste time!

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Untitled poem

You say that you’ll love me forever but what about today

As the dusks become dawns and the years pass on will you
Love me the same way
If so let us rejoice and bath in constant pleasure
If not spare my heart today and I shall recover before forever
And if my doubts and questions upset you, forgive my fragile heart
I just wanted to know if you’d love me forever
Before today would start!

***It's called untitled poem, cause honestly I don't know what the tittle of this poem will be. I got this from my mads Jo, a poem without a tittle. I wanted to put a tittle on it, but I can't think of any.Sorry I thought this week I will be back on my track again, but unfortunately it's worsen. Still not in the mood to write and so depress, feeling alone and empty. My heart is shattered again in pieces, soon I will post it what I really felt right now. I'm not selfish I know this is the truth behind my closet, but accept my apology. I'm not ready to share it to everyone my feelings right now, even to my closest friends. I need to find some time alone and figure everything thats bothering me.****

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Message in the bottle meme....

I got this message in the bottle meme from my beautiful friend Ice..mwah ice thanks.

Here are the rules:
You are about to send a virtual Message In a Bottle across the Blog Ocean. Leave a message in the sand or on the bottle. Write anything you wish. Be a pirate or a poet. Serious or silly. Anonymous or not. What message would you like to send out to the universe?

1. Compose a message to place in your virtual bottle.
2. Right click and SAVE the blank graphic below.
3. Use a graphics program of your choice to place the message on the picture.

4. Post the Message In a Bottle meme with your creation in your blog along with these rules.
5. Tag a minimum of 5 bloggers - or your entire blogroll - to do the same. Notify them of the tag.
Your virtual bottle will remain afloat in the blogosphere ocean for all blogernity (That’s a mimism for blog + eternity.) Have fun!!!

Here's mine:

Now it's time for me to pass this tag to my friends:
Mimot
Joanna
Darlyn
Jean
Kuya Cesar

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For Ry......

Have I ever told you

that after the first time
I receive a message from you
a thousands of miles away,
I sat up all night, reading your
message over and over examining it,
like some newly discovered
species of flower?

Have I ever told you
that sometimes I will reach out,
touching your face on this cold screen
before me, wishing I could reach in
and pull you to me?

Have I ever told you
that I would give everything up,
just for one night to be able to
lay near you, to feel your chest rise
and fall with each breath you take,
just to know that you are real?

Have I ever told you
that I dream of you often, I dream of
you reaching out and touching my hand,
simply to let me know that you are
there, and everything is okay?

Have I ever told you
that I really love you?

***This poem is for my hunny… I know our relationship now is experiencing a rough time, you have your own priorities in life that bundles your time now. I want you to know that I love you and I really trust you...I miss you....mwah hun.***

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'What If'

What if two people lived like human compasses,
Will they ever find their partner soul?
What if two people had opposite magnetism,
Will they ever find their matching poles?

What if two people traveled a closed path,
Will their paths ever come across?
What if two people became static,
Will they ever know their worthy cause?

What if two people listened to the same music,
Will they know what their ears hear?
What if two people become mute,
How will they say what they feel?

Life is full of mysteries and questions.
What more can you ask for?
However the world turns around,
No one will really ever know!

***This poem taken from the science journal of my bro, while scanning he's journal I saw this poem. For some reason I really like it and I think it was made for me, so I decided to post it here.haha... "What If", yeah life is full of 'what if'...what if all your wishes came true,is that can make you feel contented in life? what if you risks everything for someone, is that means that he\she will stay for you forever? ..and etc. Life is full of mysteries, full of surprises. You don't know what will happened next.... Sometimes you feel that life is very frustrating and sometimes you feel life is good after everything that happened to you. So many questions in our minds and no matter how hard we tried for an answer, still we can't get it. But as time past we just surprised that all the boggling question in our mind in the past are now answered. We keep on finding the truth about life and trying hard to find a meaning about it, but we fail to appreciate life itself. We complain that sometimes life is so boring, but how can we enjoy life if you, yourself doesn't know how to have fun. "Life is like a game of cards. The hand that is dealt you represents determinism; the way you play it is free will." Just enjoy life!play it well....mwah all...***

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The Answer to my Prayer....

****Don’t run away from love. Don’t run away from loving another. Run away from fear. Run away from doubt. There is power in love and it is the only thing that you have in life that cannot be taken away.****

Have you ever thought of looking for that someone who would complete your existence? Someone who could distract you from your daily routine?Someone who would capture your imagination... Well, I do. I find myself thinking about someone that could make life more complete, more satisfying. That someone that would invade my consciousness.......

Luckily for me I found him, the answer to my prayer. I never though that I will fall for a guy that I meet on the internet...yeah it's sounds crazy but I love him. I don't know how or why....I can't explain myself why I felt this way towards the person that I've never meet in my whole life (only on cam). I don't know but every time I talk to him i feel very comfortable and I can be myself, i don't have to pretend. We can talk everything about my life and he's life, making funny stories, he makes me laugh and brighten my day, he really open for a topic and he sleep very late just to talk to me....I really feel that I've known him for so long, knowing he live in the other parts of the world. In him I found a brother, a best friend, a soul mate, and a lover. They said that "no one completes you but yourself", well for me this person complete me now. He's like a piece of a puzzle, that without him the puzzle will never called 'complete'.

Before I always fall for a wrong person, some guys came into my life just to make me fall or used me and after that they will leave me hanging.Well like John Lloyd said in the movie 'One More Chance'... "baka tayo iniwan ng mga taong mahal natin, kase baka merong darating na mas ok... na mas mamahalin tayo, yung taong hindi tayo sasaktan at paaasahin... yung nag-iisang tao na magtatama ng mga mali sa buhay natin." I hope he's the person who really meant for me.

I meet you on the day that 9 days or misa de galleo started. I don't know if it's the sign from heaven. I know there's a reason why I meet you..... whatever the reason it is, weather you hurt me or be with me in the end. It doesn't matter! I want you to know that I'm glad that I meet you. You're my first love and I always pray to God that you will be my last love. I know it's hard for me and for you to have this kind of relationship (a long distance relationship)... But taking a risk for this relationship is worth it, I know we could make it with the help of God of course...Your the nicest person that I meet and I hope you will not be tired of me, sorry if sometimes I act like a stupid girl.

P.S. : "Thank you for everything hun, I love you and you know that.And I do hope that our path will cross someday.....I don't know when, but I'm willing to wait for you.....until I reached 40 years old...what?hahahaha.....not that long ok?cause i'm not that pretty anymore..lol...I love you hun...mwah."

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"A Good Realization"

As you can see now in my blog, It has a slight change. I'm talking about my quotation from this"Behind my smile,are all of my lies. Behind this whole body is a broken me. Behind the jokes I make,are laughters sometimes I fake. Now you see? It's not all of me. Because at the back of this sign that "I'm free" is the sign that says "Please fix me" to a new one(you will notice it -->).
Why? Well simply because I just realized how stupid I am. All these years I always complain about life and never bother to appreciate all the good things that comes my way. Until one day I realized something...I am very lucky "Yes I am" God give me the wealth of love coming from these people.

A good family, I have a good dad (papa) who is very supportive and loving father, a nice mom (mama) who devote her life to take care and provide our needs, a sweet brother that I can always talk to and share interest. I really love my family, a real treasure that can never be exchange even a bundle of gold. My family is not perfect, we have some faults like other family too. But despite the trails we face in our lives, we remain strong and happy, we're close as a family. The saying "The family prays together, stays together" it really apply to us. If the family put God in the center of their lives that will be a strong foundation.

A good friends who's always there for me, some of them are living in the different parts of the Philippines , some had their own family, and some are busy with their own lives. But we're still friends despite of distance and luck of time sometimes. All I can say "I really thank you guys!for everything..."

Well I'm new in this company, new job and new people. Actually it's my two months here and I'm happy to say that "I'm grateful to be here, thank God". Since it's a new environment, I have a new seat of friends that can be with every lunch time sharing stories, ideas, and stupid jokes...lol...and specially the conference...the text conference, right guys? I promised that I will write something for them in my blog..So read it guys!(naning naku ni!).

Jayson - 'the charlie..daw?' I already known jayson for quit many years now, he's one of my classmate in college, but we're not that close before, but now we're close (close ba tayo?) I don't have no choice! (kawawa kasi walang kasama kumain nung first day!kaya niyaya ko..diba son?lol),he's really a funny guy!The life in the group...he always throw funny jokes even it's not funny anymore and he really laugh very loud that can distract you from where you stand. But he's a good guy always there for you..wow..well he's heartbroken now...because.....well I don't want to elaborate more coz I know jayson will kill me and he will say ("letse kah brey!"..lol). Even though your smiling son the wounds was still there, of course you really love her before... always remember this: it's not your lost it's her..ok (daghan pa chicks!naa pa bevs, bagay mo!). Your a great guy....Thanks for being a clown in the group, you really don't know we're glad to have you. Good luck to your rasta band and new love life..soon(with bevs?..lol).

Joanna - 'the loyal' A loyal friend, a loyal wife and a good mom. We meet here in the office (sabay kami exam,interview, nauna lang ako nang 1 day pag hire diba mads?). She's really nice and a loving friend, I'm one of the godmother of her son 'clint'. Jo your a good mom I witness that all the time and the most loyal wife to jonel (he's husband). Joanna's line "sige na brey kay nag pa abot na si jonel" and if ever we invite her to go somewhere "ay wala ko nag paalam kay jonel,next time nalang"(look pwede nang mag ka award ang lola!most loyal!lol), Well she's very devoted to her family, she's a young mom but very mature. Jo I'm so proud to be your friend...my advice is that don't let anyone or anybody ruin the good family you have now(yung mga taong walang magawa sa life manira nalang nang family!ingit lang sila mads). Always pray to God and always love your family, Jonel is very lucky to have you. Thanks for being there and a good adviser to me.

Wiwit - 'the weird or joker?' She's the girl version of jayson. Have you experience it when the group are talking very serious and suddenly one person try to enter in the conversation, and ruin it and all of you end up laughing?That's wiwit she's always throw a silly jokes...jayson always say this to her "adik kah wit?"...Well like jayson she's also the life in the group in short 'clown', a pretty clown. Seriously she's very nice , she really listen to you and you can depend on her all the time. whenever we talk about serious matters she really listen and try to give her best shot to help you sort things out, remember our conversation at mcdo and kfc?...(ok lang nah wit pariha lang tah nbsb-no boyfriend since birth)..I think God wants us to meet a right person, he will make a beautiful love story for us..far from our imagination mads.patience is a virtue mariwitz....(maski mag 40 years old nata hulat japon..lol). Thanks for making us laugh and for being nice...P.S.:for boys wiwit is almost perfect..lol, try her.....

Darlyn - 'the pm' well I have to be serious about this girl. She's our pm guys!...show some respect!(takot ako..lol)..Well like joanna she's a good mom, a young mom also,very serious(kaya naging pm nag grupo!diba son?) we always hang-out together (laging kumakain sa dunkin donut) sharing stories about love life..remember darl?This girl is so smart, if you see her blog...(naks!graveh yung english....ang sakit sa ulo..lol) and now she's really busy with her up coming business..go girl(nah madato na gyud kh ana!) .Darl thanks for being a nice friend...hope you found your dream boy (aw nakita mo na pala!), goodluck to you and your Saudi boy!Trust and Honesty is the key to a long-distant relationship!(char!mura naka agi..lol)..go..go..go pm....

Beverly - 'the babes' (babe of jayson...lol) I really don't know her that well...But I know she's a very nice girl and smart (programmer eh!congrats programmer kana!) Now I know that she's also broken hearted like jayson (oist..bagay gyud!) well bevs the key to broken heart is to love again...(marami pang boys..like jayson..bagay mo both programmer and take note boy next door yan si jayson(lalaki sa kilid sa purtahan!...lol).. Well if you need someone to talk to, we're always here for you girl...(goodluck to your new lovelife with jayson...lol)..Thanks for being a good friend.

P.S : Every Saturday mag pa unli ta... for our conference...ok!


* To all my co-worker here thanks for being so nice to me. For my bosses thanks for the opportunity to work here...*

Kuya Cesar - 'the master blogger' This guy is my mentor in blogging (salamat ya!) he always say this to me "oi kumusta blogging brey", he's really nice to all and a good husband and father as well. Good luck ya and God bless you and your family always. Your a devoted husband and a loving father, keep it up!

Lastly my special someone ('he's not my boyfriend'), I don't know if he knows that he's special to me and I don't care if he read this or not!hahahah...Well I want to thank you for everything, for making me laugh always (coz your so weird sometimes..oh many times...lol).For staying so late in the net just to talk to me, even though your so damn tired.For really trying to open a different topic so that our conversation will not be boring. I hope you will not be bored of me, coz I'm the most boring person in the world...lol..Thank you for staying at me you really make me happy...Ingtz ka palagi mr.
P.S : "Lagi kung dinadasal sa puong maykapal na sana ikaw na,ang taong para sa akin at mamahalin ko.Kung hind naman sana katulad mo."( Try to scan your dictionary so that you will understand what I wrote...I told you I'm rude...lol)

***The secret to happiness is to learn how to appreciate all the things that you have. Live with what is yours.....If you can't have what you want, maybe you can like what you have now. Be contented but strive for your dreams in life. Enjoy life and trust God all the time.***

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The heart breaking story...

The girlfriend confronts the ex- boyfriend.....

ex-girlfriend: How dare you play our song in your wedding day?
How dare you pick my favorite color as your motif?
How dare you choose our anniversary date as your wedding date?
How dare you look at me before you kiss your wife?

The ex-girlfriend breaks down and cry.............

ex-boyfriend: Because that's the last and only way I could pretend that your my wife.

---Even we know that we really love that person and willing to spend the rest of our life to him/her .We tend to be blind and pretend not to care, because we're too afraid to take the risk.....And the worst thing about it, we realized it when it's too late....when we lost that special person in our life. You can never turn back the time and you can never hold on the person you love once you let them go. “The moment you find someone that makes your heart beats, stop the search and take the risks...remember that the world is a big place that if you lose the one you love...You have to search the world again.”----

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