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Photobucket The art of Letting Go....

I was surfing the internet and found this cute story about a girl who learn the art of letting go.For some letting go of someone is an easy process as eating a piece of cake but for others including myself this is a painful process that it's hard to overcome. I know myself more that anything else and I know if I have to let go of someone this could be a very difficult process and it took me years to move on from the glimpse of memories.When I read this story somehow it made me realized, that in life you have to face that fact that some things doesn't last forever. You have to let it go and continue exploring life. To let go is not to deny but to accept. To let go is not to regret the past, but to grow and to live for the future. To let go is to fear less and to love more.Although it's painful but beneficial for us... Whenever I go people keep on telling me that "things happens for a reason", yeah I know things happens for a reason...I may never know why these things happened in my life now but I'm sure someday at the right time it will be answered and it all make sense.Photobucket

Here's the story...

Letting Go Author:
Dee Edgett

There was once a lonely girl who longed desperately for love. One day while she was walking in the woods she found two starving song birds. She took them home and put them in a small glided cage. She nurtured them with love and the birds grew strong. Every morning they greeted her with a marvellous song. The girl felt great love for the birds. She wanted their singing to last forever.One day the girl left the door to the cage open. The larger and stronger of the two birds flew from the cage. The girl watched anxiously as he circled high above her. She was so frightened that he would fly away and she would never see him again that as he flew close, she grasped at him wildly. She caught him in her fist. She clutched him tightly within her hand. Her heart gladened at her sucess in capturing him. Suddenly she felt the bird go limp. She opened her hand stared in horror at the dead bird. Her desperate clutching love had killed him.She noticed the other bird teteering on the edge of the cage. She could feel his great need for freedom. His need to soar into the clear, blue sky. She lifted him from the cage and tossed him softly into the air. The bird circled once, twice, three times.The girl watched delighted at the bird's enjoyment. Her heart was no longer concerned with her loss. She wanted the bird to be happy. Suddenly the bird flew closer and landed softly on her shoulder. It sang the sweetest melody, she had ever heard.

***The fastest way to lose love is to hold on too tight, the best way to keep love is to give it -- WINGS!***








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13 Cinderella's Commentos:

jean said...

hmm nice story... wahehehhe ka relate ko,,char..

Princess Cinderella said...

@jean: aw pariha tah ani jean...hehehee

Keith said...

Many years back, my friend encouraged me to buy a daily reader callled The Language of Letting Go, by Melody Beattie.

I think, as time passes, I should find that book again...

jigs said...

maayo kaayo nga story nakahilak jud ko aubs. mura pod nag kadtong akong piso nga akong gipalupad namatay hinoon gipugos man nakog palutaw sa hangin . manok man diay siya nga piso mao to.

Princess Cinderella said...

@keith: thanks for the comment and thanks for sharing about that book,well I'm going to find it I think it could help me more....muah

Princess Cinderella said...

@jigs: hahaha..mao bah jigs..try daw nah naku daw..hmmmm..oist late lagi kah???asa kah natulog kagabie???hmmm..tsk..tsk

Aice Nice Concepts said...

hmmm yeah its really hard to let go ako nga it took me 2 years to finally let go na from the past relationship imagine 2 years pero long distance relationship un siya bah never saw him (Y_Y)

anyway, i'm over with that long distance relationship...

finally I have this feeling with another guy but I learned very well I don't need to hold him in order to have him.
kaya nga parati sa status message ko
"kung ako mamalasin at ika'y may iba nang mahal, patuloy paring ang akin pagibig magpakailan man, hindi kita pipilitin, sundin mo pa ang iyong damdamin, hayaan ko nalang tumibok ang puso mo para sa akin"

in english...
waaa
sige nga try natin...

If I be unfortunate that you have someone you love,
my love still go on forever more,
I will not hold you back instead will let your heart fall in love with me.

ngee tama bah?

waaa (^_^)

dumzK said...

hi bff!karon ra jud tawn q nka.lugar sa paghatag og komentaryo sa imong mga post/s..usa ra jud intawn aqng maikatampo mahitungod aning "letting go", natukaw gayud ang aqng alimptakan, apan matod pa nila..ana jud ng kinabuhi "dawat2x" lang, busa ang kinabuhi padaun lang ghapon kay ang kinabuhi bililhon..kalimti ang kagahapon, og atong atubangon ang hagit sa umaabot nga ugma..ako lamang kining itampo kanimo ning panultihon sa nga gibungat ni master yoda (star wars character) nga naga-ingon "train yourself to let go of the things you feard to loose"..amping bff,..dalaygon ang DIYOS!mwah..

Princess Cinderella said...

@aice nice concepts and dumzk: hahay ana gyud nang life ice ingon pa ni bff dawat dawat lang daw nah....hay sagdi lang. I know theres a reason behind it and whatever the reason it is I know in the right time will all make sense....As of this moment be calm sa tah ice kay lisod na to rush in love...muah thanks ice and bff..ingats

danzrev said...

Yes, Sometimes to love is to let go even its hard but its the reality of life that you can never change, maybe your time is not come yet, its just like the song we have the right love at the wrong time..., So just wait maybe tomorrow your time will come as bright as the sunshine...:)

Princess Cinderella said...

@danzrev: dan tama gyud kah ako nana kanta nang "we have the right love at the wrong time..guess I always knew inside....hmmmmm" unsa gani sunod?hehehe..hahay mahirap talage but we have to undergo with this kind of pain to become a strong person even more..wink

Mitch said...

Wow! Ganda ng story..makatouched hehhee keep posting pa brey para naa ko basa-basahun inig human na akung task..hihihih ayo! muaahhhzzz

caryn said...

i think that ultimately, time is the greatest healer; we somehow find out that we're stronger than we thought we were ;-)

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