Like a puzzle, it took me time to put the pieces as one until I came up with this whole picture of what those people are trying to say “together”.
While I was walking, I stopped for a while and thought of the things I don’t have, then I realized that the happiest of all don’t necessarily have the best of everything, they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose it, but it’s also true that we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives.
In the gateway of my heart I put a sign that says “No trespassing” but love came laughing and said, ‘I enter everywhere’. Love knows no reason, love knows no lies, love defies all reason, love has no yes but love is not blind. Love sees but it doesn’t mind. Love is supposed to be a wonderful feeling. It shall inspire you and give you joy and strength. But sometimes, the things that give you joy can also hurt you in the end. It starts with a smile, develops with a kiss and ends with a tear.
When you love you must not expect something in return in you do, you’re not loving but investigating. If you love, you must prepare to accept pain. For if you only accept happiness you’re not loving but using. Don’t go for looks it can deceive, don’t go for wealth even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile coz only a smile makes a dark day seem bright.
The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves and not to twist them to fit our own image, otherwise we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them. Never try to impress someone to make him fall in love with you; coz when you do you’ll keep that standard for the rest of your life.
A sad thing about life is that when you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and you just have to let him go. Maybe God wants us to meet few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we should know to be grateful for the gift. We oftentimes don’t see the reason why we don’t always get what we want but in the end of it all, we realized that what we wanted wasn’t meant for us after all. Everything happens for a reason, when you feel down because you didn’t get what you wanted just sit tight and be happy because God is thinking something better for you.
It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is the most painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel. It’s always better to have found courage to love even if you love it in the end, rather than never finding love because you were too afraid to face its challenge. The greatest regrets in your lives are the risk you did not take. If you think something will make you happy, go for it! Remember that you pass this way only once.
Love no matter how hard you find it, you won’t see it. No matter how hard you try, you won’t get it. But when you’re about to give-up it comes. Sometimes the love you were looking for is right in front of you, so close your eyes and let your heart see itself. There are things you love to hear but you can never hear it from the person who says it with his heart. Just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want him, doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have. There are so many stars in the sky, only some are radiant to be noticed. Among those you choose to ignore is the one which is willing to shine for you forever, even if your glance remains elsewhere.
God never closes door without opening the window. He always gives you something better when he takes something away. Heartbreaks will last as long as you want and cut deep at you allow them to challenge is how to survive heartbreaks but to learn from them in relationships. Thank God when you’re hurting or crying, there you are given the chance to measure the importance of the relationship of the people and you. When you grow you don’t become a better person experienced suffering. You have no right to ask when sorrow comes your way. When God puts a tear in your eye, it’s because he wants to put rainbow in your heart.
There are some things that we never want to let go of, people you never want to leave behind. But keep in mind to let go isn’t the end of the world. It’s a beginning of the new life; the brightest future will always be based in forgotten past. You can’t go on well in life until you let go of your forgotten past failures and heartbreaks. To let go is not to deny but to accept. To let go is not regret the past, but to grow and to live for the future. To let go is to fear less and to love more.
Don’t be afraid to break someone’s heart or have your heart broken because that’s how relationship is when you are young, they are stepping stones for the main one. Follow your heart it might not always be right but despite the pain. You’ll have memories that will make you smile even once and every rare, while it is better not to have the person you love right now but have them later than be with then now but lose them forever. Love has it’s time, season and own reasons. You can’t ask it to say you can only embrace it as it comes and be glad that for a moment in your life it was yours. Each of us given a pocketful of time spends however we may. We use that we will, we waste that we will. But we never get back a day. Don’t let each moment pass you by for within the twinkling eye that moment shall go and the feeling shall die, it might be too late when you open your eyes. Don’t be so busy planning the life you’re going to have that you fall to appreciate the one you’ve already been given. Dream what you want to dream, go where you wan to go, be what you want in life. We are given dreams without power to make it come true.
A heart truly in love never loses hope but always believe in the promised of love no matter how long the time and how far the distance. Never say goodbye when you still want to try, never give up when you still feel you can take it, and never say you don’t love the person anymore when you can’t go. True love doesn’t have a happy ending, that’s because true love doesn’t have an ending.
2 Cinderella's Commentos:
Very inspiring.. Your blog speaks about love and relationships. I hope the man for you is already waiting at your doorstep. Soon, I know..
Wow !!! Your wisdom excedes your age. You have a profound vision on life. I am impressed by your depth of emotion and you keen observations.
YOU ARE ONE IN A MILLION !!!
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